Wedding Wednesday (Uno)

Holy Moly this post might be a little uh...scattered.

and overwhelming
so bear with me folks.

Especially because my mind is clearly in too many places at once.

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With school being absolutely insane right now, trying to figure out where I'll be teaching next year, and thinking about wedding planning makes my mind go a little...bonkers.

BUT. Hopefully these Wedding Wednesday's will help me sort out all my wedding stuff into one day so I don't have to overwhelm my poor little brain that can only hold so much information.

A little background information:

I am going to be honest.

I have barely planned a damn thing for my wedding.

Okay, I haven't planned anything.

I have been so overwhelmed I can't even wrap my head around it.

It's not that I'm not excited.

That is definitely not it.
I am so very very excited I get to be with my best friend forever.

I just get really really stressed out when I think of all the things I need to do.

Then it makes me not even continue the searh.
I have this weird anxiety thing.

Ya, well I am learning to take it one day at a time.

Our wedding isn't for another year and a half so I have time.

Lots of time.

But when I think of all the things needed, I FREAK.

And veer away. fastly.

I'm sure people around me are like are you crazy?

Well maybe,  but I don't like to be rushed.

I like to enjoy things.
So here I am, taking one day to enjoy things and share them with you.
Lord knows I can't make a decision so maybe y'all can help me :)
Also, it's always nice to have some input.

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Today I would like to start with theme.

Holy mama there are too many.
I love so many.
See? this is where the overwhelming part comes IN.
Since I obviously suck at chosing, I just wanted to show some stunning weddings I adore.
I want my wedding to be three things: simple, fun, and unique.
Hey, at least I know that much.
I want it to show who Jeff & I are as a couple.
The shit, OBVIOUSLY.
Might as well have a dang toilet as our wedding cake.
Whoa.

I have looked at so many different wedding themes and what I just cannot keep clicking "like" on stumble upon are the ones with unique characteristics.
The ones you are like "OH MY GOSH I MUST DO THIS"
or
"HOLY SHIZ HOW DID THEY EVEN THINK OF THAT ?"
Those types of thoughts.

For some reason lately I have been feelin the "vintage" theme.

I have no idea why.

Maybe because they all are unique and gorgeous.

I am thinking the wedding would have to be outside for it to take place though.

Hmm.

No idea.

Here are some things I've found that made me smile.

I lied about this week having one certain "topic".

I'll pick a topic next week.

I am feeling scattered today.

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 (Actually doing these)
Bridesmaids if you see this...well act surprised :)

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 I LOVE guestbooks that have a unique touch instead of just a signed little name. I think having a picture of all your guests would be AWESOME to have later in life. Also, I thought of the idea of snapping the picture and having the couple or familiy write their name on the bottom of the picture and a memory of Jeff, I, or both of us on the back. Sweet memories, nothing like em. Guitar? if you play...what a wonderful treasure to have after your wedding. Strumming on your supporters! Puzzle pieces? I've never even seen that before! I think it'd be cool if one side made a puzzle of the couple (an engagement picture) and the other side everyone's signed pieces.

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Why do I love these leg pictures? I have no idea. I just do. And I LOVE the sunflowers with the red dresses. Pure beauty and simplicity. Perfect.

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I want to have a "sweet shoppe". I think it is adorable when the bride and groom have one table of sweets, mini cupcakes, and little treats that make the wedding just a little bit more fun and colorful. Plus, who wouldn't want TREATS and SWEETS? I don't see any hands raised.

I've been LOVING the whole "First Letter" thing people have been doing lately.
I think it looks a.) awesome b.) modern c.) simple d.) FUN e.) awesome
I need to stop using the word awesome or I'm going to turn into a fourth grader.
Or maybe I am one?
Beats me.

So if ANYONE has ANYONE awesome ideas they want to throw my way I will pay you not be upset.
I cannot wait until next Wednesday :)